Never let the devil deceive you into supposing that God planned sin as βa gracious means to a glorious end,β for then salvation from sin would be simple justice, not grace. No, you cannot legitimately charge God with your sin. It is to the guilty, the undeserving, far and wide, that God offers βthe forgiveness of sins according to the riches of His graceβ (Eph. 1:7).
There are two significant phrases in Eph. 2 which shed clear light upon the character, the nature, of grace. They are found in Verses 2 and 3, which speak of the unsaved as βchildren [Gr.,Β huiois, full-grown sons] of disobedienceβ and βchildren [Gr.,Β tekna, born ones] of wrath.β
Meditate for a moment on these phrases:Β βChildren of disobedienceβΒ andΒ βchildren of wrath.β It is against this dark, black background of deserved wrath, that we read further:
βBUT GOD, who is RICH IN MERCY, for His GREAT LOVE wherewith He loved us,
βEven when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us [given us life] together with Christ (BY GRACE ARE YE SAVED),
βAnd hath raised us up together and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus:
βThat in the ages to come He might show THE EXCEEDING RICHES OF HIS GRACE IN HIS KINDNESS TOWARD US THROUGH CHRIST JESUSβ (Eph. 2:4-7).
Somehow it takes a load off oneβs heart and mind to come to the end of his rope, as it were, and admit that he is a sinner, deserving Godβs wrath. How sweet to the ears of such is the wonderful message of redemption by grace, through the finished work of Christ at Calvary. We were all the βchildren [full-grown sons] of disobedienceβ: and therefore βby nature the children [born ones] of wrathβ: βBut God!β When hope seemed gone, He intervened and now offers salvation to all by grace, through faith.
βBelieve on the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shalt be savedβ (ActsΒ 16:31). source