Do you remember how dispensational truth was first shared with you? This writer cannot think about rightly dividing Godβs Word without remembering the wonderfully gracious way these truths were patiently shared with him and his wife. No one acted like they were superior to us, that they were smarter than we, nor did they attempt to attack key doctrines where we might disagree. No one sought to win a scriptural argument. We were not embarrassed by public questioning. There were no threats, implied or otherwise, that fellowship might be withdrawn if our convictions remained unchanged, nor was there any hint of frustration with our understandings.
Those who first shared dispensational truths with us did so as it should be done, in a gracious and godly manner. As the saying goes, βYou can attract more bees with honey than vinegar.β So, those who ministered to us did so in an extremely loving manner. They followed the instruction Paul gave to Timothy: βThe servant of the Lord mustΒ notΒ strive; but beΒ gentleΒ unto all men, apt to teach, patient,Β in meeknessΒ instructing those that oppose themselvesβ (II Tim. 2:24-25).
Nonetheless, there certainly was opposition on our part when these servants of the Lord began to shed new light on traditionally held doctrines. Yet, with tenderness, they put Colossians 4:6 into practice: βLet your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man.β These discussions were frequent and sometimes lasted into the wee hours of the morning, but there was diligence on the part of these soldiers of Christ. Their method of ministry made the doctrines they believed in palatable to us. We thank God this was the approach that was taken with us, and it is probably the only one that would have worked. As we read this testimony, may each of us be encouraged to share dispensational truth with others and always be certain to do so in such a tender way that we βadorn the doctrineβ (Titus 2:10) we believe. source
