A wealthy man had a servant who just wasnβt working out. The man was slower than a dusty turtle. So one day the man told him, βUnless your work picks up, Iβm going to have to get another servant.β The servant replied, βThatβd be awesome! I could use a little help around here.β
In Bible days the Roman Empire wasΒ filledΒ with servants and masters, many of whom were saved and attended the churches the apostle Paul had established. This led him to write to Titus:
βExhort servants to be obedient unto their own masters, and to please them well in all things; not answering againβ (Titus 2:9).
This advice was probably much needed in Pauline churches like the ones in Crete where Titus was stationed, for servants who knew Pauline doctrine were sure to know that βin Christβ¦Β there is neither bond nor freeβΒ (Gal. 3:26-28).Β If you were a servant who got saved in those days, wouldnβt you think that this meant you didnβt have to obey your master?
The problem with that kind of thinking is that PaulΒ went onΒ to say that in Christ βthere isΒ neither male nor femaleβΒ (Gal. 3:28). Well, if the fact that there is neither bond nor free in Christ means servants donβt have to obey their masters, then the fact that there is also neither male nor female in Christ would mean wives donβt have to obey their husbands. And if wives stop obeying their husbands, the very fabric of society begins to unravelβas we are seeing in our own day!
And God is not in the business of overturning society. God is in the business ofΒ making society betterΒ by reinforcing respect for authority inΒ allΒ areas of life.Β Thatβs why Paul exhorts wives to be subject to their husbands (Eph. 5:24), and tells all of us to obey the law (Rom. 13:1-7).
Now in saying these things Paul was not implying that servants and wives were somehowΒ inferior to masters and husbands. When the Lord Jesus was twelve years old (Luke 2:42) He was βsubjectβ unto His parents (Luke 2:51), but He was not inferior to Joseph and Mary. If anything, He wasΒ superiorΒ to them. He was God in the flesh! So obeying them didnβt make Him inferior. It just showed He knew that God told children: βHonour thy father and thy motherβ (Ex. 20:12). And it didnβt make servants inferior to their masters to obey Paulβs command to βbe obedient to them that are your mastersβ (Eph. 6:5), and βplease them well in all thingsβ (Titus 2:9).
Now to please someone well means to justΒ delightΒ them. God predicted the Lord would be a man βin whom My soulΒ delightethβ (Isa. 42:1). But in quoting that verse, Matthew translated the word βdelightethβ asΒ βwell pleasedβΒ (Mt. 12:18). So in saying servants should please their masters well, Paul was saying they should go above and beyond the call of duty by justΒ obeyingΒ them. He was saying a servant should make himself someone who isΒ an absolute delightΒ to his master.
And donβt forget, this is not all dry, dusty advice for people of a bygone era. What Paul says to servants is advice that we can apply toΒ employeesΒ in our own day. If you are gainfully employed, you should be obedient to your boss, of course. But if you want to be Pauline and go above and beyond the call of duty, you will want to make yourselfΒ a sheer delightΒ to your employer. Christians who serve their boss like that bring joy to the drudgery of everyday life at work. Just think of what would happen ifΒ allΒ of Godβs people were to adopt this godly attitude. Imagine the testimony that this would be to how Christianity can brighten the world in every area of life.
When Paul adds that servants should serve their masters by βnot answering again,β thatβs a Bible phrase that only appears here. But as the Coasters sang many years ago, when parents tell children what to do and hear any βyakety yakβ in response, they usually say: βDonβt talk back!β Thatβs what Paul was telling servants to do, to obey their mastersΒ with no backtalk. Nothing is less delightful than a servant who gives his master lip! So why not determine here and now that you will please your boss well in all things instead. Youβll be eternally glad you did. source